mistakes done by parents after devorce

Don't make your child the messenger ...Too many parents attempt to communicate through their children,

 Don't fall into the trap of sharing divorce details or your angry feelings about your ex with your older kids. Their own anxiety and need for control causes them to be 'understanding' of what you're going through, but you need to be the parent. Get outside help for yourself, get therapy if necessary, and maintain those boundaries

 Kids need to feel as if they are understood Don't tell them what to think. And it might be difficult, but never criticize your ex -- it's a criticism of your child, who, of course,

 Many divorced parents reading these tips may recognize mistakes they've unintentionally made with their own kids. Is it ever too late to undo emotional fall-out from a nasty split? "No, children are remarkably forgiving